Scientists have named the main reasons and motives for infidelity
• Scientists describe the main reasons and motives for the betrayal of
It is difficult to imagine a feeling that hurts deeper than treason. Able to forgive her, not all, but remember for a lifetime for sure everyone. But why, in spite of the effects of a whole bunch of people go to this risky and difficult step in all respects? Science has found the answer.
Love betrayal - the concept is much more complex and sophisticated than the banal phrase "it happened". Moral aspect aside the causes of this phenomenon from a scientific point of view, have tried to understand the American researchers. To do this, they surveyed 495 volunteers aged 20+ who have ever in my life have changed his partner. The results were published in medical journals Journal of Sex Research. And if they believe it's the look of the main reasons for infidelity.
1. "missing feeling"
The reason №1, which was called as much as 77% (!) Of the respondents. While the phrase "I feel that my partner does not love me more," and variations on the theme heard more often than "I'm out of love / and." So keep in mind: the lack of attention and manifestations of tenderness on the part of the second half often becomes the basis for treason.
2. The desire to have more sexual partners
It may seem strange, but this was the reason №2. Apparently, not everyone can or wants to control the natural instincts.
3. Lack of attachment
41% of respondents admitted that they were not difficult to go for treason, because they did not feel such a strong attachment to a partner. Besides, the higher the affection, the more difficult to decide on this step.
4. Random factors
The same "just happened" and "I was drunk." But it is curious that to chance factors almost always joined at least one more reason from the list. That is in itself a state of alcoholic intoxication is rarely an excuse for infidelity.
5. Increasing self-esteem
As many as 57% of respondents indicated that due to the changes and casual relationships would improve their self-esteem, feel more attractive, relevant and popular.
43% have changed at least once in order to "avenge" his partner. Besides, it is not so important for that: resentment, betrayal, inattention or bad gift for the anniversary of living together.
7. "The closeness of proximity for"
Studies have shown that the option "I just wanted to physical proximity" more often chosen by men than women. While women are mostly called ohladevshie feelings main reason for infidelity.