To marry the rapist, or why one of the most joyful events in life can turn into a nightmare?
The marriage of love - this is one of the most joyous events in the life of every girl. Of course, there are countries that still will not leave the tradition, but in this case, often couples live happily ever after. But for some women in certain regions of the world the wedding becomes a nightmare that stays in their memory for a lifetime.
This is due to the fact that many girls in the tradition taken from his home to steal. It does not matter, she agrees to marry or not. If a girl is like a man, you do not need consent from her, just need to kidnap her.
The abduction of the bride - this is truly a terrible thing. Those involved in such actions are condemned by almost all countries of the world, but, despite this, many authorities turn a blind eye to such actions. Very little is taken to protect and safeguard a woman from such encroachment by men. Most young girls are still being abducted and forced to marry.
1. The crimes committed often, but which made silent
Once upon a time involved in the kidnapping of brides only in a few places on the planet, and that there were certain groups of people who belong to a particular tribe. Unfortunately, at the moment such executions of women are frequent, but this is not to say, so as not to undermine the good status of a country. Every nation in the world is well aware of what is happening in certain countries, however, for some unknown reason this crime lies not only those who commit it, but also those who are kidnapped. To say that it did so is not only a disgrace for a woman, but also a sense of sin. Indeed, in those countries where it lives, this procedure is completely "legitimate".
2. Tradition or a crime?
For many people such strange rituals are real crime against women. After all, in fact, a girl forcibly taken away from the family, forced to marry a stranger, and restrict it in all. Yes, it really is a crime! But in many countries, such actions are considered to be nothing more than a simple tradition that over the years, with mangled and turned utterly feet, but who continue to believe. But how to develop our world and the people and the traditions also take new turns. Now, in many cases traditions are becoming more brutal, because the bride did not just kidnap, but also sometimes bullied. And this is quite a common practice.
The young grooms who kidnap their brides are often unaware of their future wives. She may be familiar with from childhood, to live in the same village with her future husband, is a former classmate or friend. It is not that the wives take a complete stranger in the street. But in some regions, women are selected solely on its ability to various kinds of work.
Some brides who are forcibly abducted, forced to work on the ground of her husband and his family. Basically, a woman brought in someone else's family, so that she could cook, clean, do laundry and watch out for other people's home and farm. The scary thing is that many of the women of these countries know that it is inevitable and often do not bother to go to school to get an education, and somehow to resist.
4. Sexual Offenses
The governments of many countries in which the common bride kidnapping, does not consider it a crime against a woman and her will as a kidnapping. All regard it as a crime of a sexual nature. Even if the location of the woman is unknown, and there is no evidence that any sexual contact was - it still is nothing more than a rape. In most cases, innocent bride kidnapping is hiding abuse of women. In that case, if the thieves are found, they are waiting for real life, which will not be limited to a few years in prison.