"Innocent" gestures that give out the real attitude of the interlocutor
Unfortunately or fortunately, read other people's thoughts - it is impossible. However, there is such a thing as "body language". It includes a series of gestures that, according to long-term observations of psychologists, most often expressed particular set of emotions. The material will give some explanation as to understand the true attitude of the interlocutor in his gestures.
1. Crossed hands always mean discomfort to a greater or lesser extent
Crossed hands - protection.
The crossed his arms - it is a universal "defensive" posture. Some people do take it deliberately when they have forced to communicate with someone that someone is in the first film and dislike. But in most cases this posture unconsciously accept. It can express a sufficiently wide range of negative emotions: fear, resentment, deep mental anguish, stress. In fact people like hugging herself and creates a barrier between themselves and the outside world (or companion).
2. No gestures outputs high interest
actively gesticulating persons more self-absorbed than in conversation. / Photo: lifehacker.ru
When a person is very active gestures, it says that he much more immersed in his own thoughts and feelings, than his companion. But there is one detail is important. If the active gestures, in principle, is a permanent feature of the human, the lack of interest to the other party, it can not mean. But if the person who, as a rule, there is seen for waving hands suddenly began to actively gesticulating, it could mean that the conversation or situation to his liking, and he wanted to go home as soon as possible.
3. Glancing at the sides gives disinterest
may interlocutor quite boring.
Classic symptoms of what the other party with you boring, is glancing around, as well as frequent checking the time on the clock or notices on the splash screen of your smartphone. In this case, the arithmetic is simple: if a person with a head engrossed in conversation, he had not come to consider, for example, signs in the windows. The human brain is generally odnozadachen, so every second glancing from side to side the other person is "not you."
4. Hands in pockets - self-doubt or situation
Hide palm - not a good sign. / Photo: internet2u.ru
Palm of the person is in fact an instrument of its tactile contact with the outside world. If a person seeks to hide them in his pockets, not because cold hands without gloves in winter or autumn, and would like for no reason, it could mean in the first place, that one is not sure of himself as part of the situation. In fact such a person "hiding". That the other party is in a state of deep concentration of nervous: he chooses in his head, which phrase or action will show him "more confident side." So often hold hands in the pockets of the passive sides, or "eternal students".
5. Raised shoulders - fear or subconscious desire to be justified by
raised shoulders - always trying to variation in some justified. / Photo: joinfo.ua
Raised shoulders - this time the classic "pose justifies." In general, it can generate a voltage caused by guilt, including the subconscious. If the raised shoulders accompanied by a slightly hunched back and slightly bowed head, "drawn into" shoulders, it can express a fear (for example, strict parents or bullies), helplessness and anxiety that comes from the subconscious or conscious self-doubt.