Tired of life, people
In the past year, our neighbor, takes quite a fat post, she quit her job, passed her beautiful three-room apartment of a successful young family and went to live in the cottage. Forever.
Before retirement she was still 15-20 years.
Surrounding perplexed and twisted his finger to his temple. Quit this job? This apartment? Exchange all the wooden hut with lilac at the window overlooking the marsh? It is not normal. Yes, everyone dreams to achieve such a success!
And she was absolutely happy.
And the rest of your life is going to spend on a small wooden terrace, reading a book, on a dedicated landing a garden square meter parsley and cooking borsch children.
Of course, I'm exaggerating a little bit.
She is somewhere writing something. Somewhere I read some lectures. It is doing something and something to earn. But it is so small and tiring compared to her past life that even the mention of it is not necessary.
Every year, these people are more and more.
Of course, not all give up everything and go into the wilderness. But changing lives significantly. For example, from the doctors to go freelance photographer, from accountants - to journalists.
Note: for some reason every year becomes more and more freelancers? Yes, in this age of the Internet and high-tech is no need to be tied to specific jobs and rigid schedule from nine to six. But there is another.
There are people tired of life
Too hard we try to impose a success. Successful. You can give a clear definition of this word?
Kindergarten man loaded to the eyeballs. Endless obyazalovke. Early rises. Semolina. Quiet time. Sit quietly. Mug. Saturday. Early rises. English and drawing. School. Early rises. Lessons. Homework. Examinations. Again exams. Institute. Early rises. Lectures. Examinations. Work. Early rises. Meeting. Reports. Planning meetings. Rush jobs.
Retired night's sleep. Bring First
Beysya head against the wall. Be successful. "Highly effective people". Have you heard? Do not be lazy, not pain, fulfilled - to die. Excellent rabotnichek. The dream of every manager. Do not catch a cold, do not get tired, does not go on vacation and on the children's matinees, working overtime and on weekends. He wants to be a highly efficient and successful. Necessary. Similarly, it is necessary?
Throughout all the years of training are desperately frightened and threatened. And learn, and not anything you would not. And learn, and not except in the wipers will not take. And learn, and not ...
Standard set. Two higher educations. Successful marriage. Prestigious job. Apartment, car and caravan. Sea a couple of times a year. Paris wedding anniversary. Children in high school. Twenty-boots, thirty bags. For the season. All of the people. Similarly, it is necessary?
Someone once decided that it is here it's all there and be successful. Are you sure that in this it is measured? And whether it is necessary at all?
Successful. In fact, this is one of the biggest swindles of our lives.
All this does not matter.
Understand this very simple truth, as a rule, are deeply tired of living people for whom the first place there is peace of mind. The possibility will not run. Owes nothing to prove. To live, not survive.
There are people who run, run, then dropped and realized that more can not. Especially when it comes to the new generation of young people who are already with the age of twenty had time to visit the major leadership positions, pulling to disproportionate burden of care and responsibility. They have all seen, all are able and more do not want anything except peace. A sort of early retirement. Then they suddenly begin to see life in a different light. Most often this occurs against the backdrop of severe fatigue and severe stress. Lying in the hospital, you can learn a lot.
Tired people gradually change everything and change themselves. They learn to live again, fully adjusting the circumstances for themselves, to fit your needs, desires and biological clock. Full control of your life, not trusting her moods and decisions of employers. They paint in watercolor and read a lot. Cook soup and bake pies. Walk in the park and play with children in the ball. Just breathe air. Understand that one bag, it turns out, is enough.
Learn to live today and now, feeling every minute.
That is why quite a long time there were such thing as a downshifting and society to combat excessive consumption, have become so popular freelancing and wintering in the Indian huts.
Since childhood, frightened. And now it seems that good outdoor broom waving.
In any case, this work seems to me more attractive editorial positions in the monthly magazine of more than a hundred pages. When there is no time to eat and drink a cup of coffee. When at ten o'clock suddenly remember that back in the lunch I wanted to go to the toilet. When eleven o'clock calls the advertiser and asks urgently alter the layout. And at nine in the morning magazine should already be in the printing ... and then climb down the dark stairs because the elevators do not work for a long time in the building. And do not call a taxi and go a couple of stops on foot to recover myself. And you think that in the morning it is necessary to finish the article and eight have to be amended. And at home a hungry child and his unfinished work. And at half past night suddenly awakened author calls and requests to make changes to the text. And again this morning whirlwind. And half an hour before delivery to the printing head come and say to redo all to hell. How? He does not care. Go out at the weekend. There are people who really get away from it all fun. The end of life is not tired from the crazy rhythm. And at the same time can feel life in all its manifestations. So that's great. We can not all be superuspeshnymi. They can not all occupy prestigious positions and manage superuspeshnymi companies. Someone needs and revenge fallen leaves.
Tired of life, people and the people chasing success, will never understand each other. Clearly, to each his own. But if you feel that you can no longer do not be afraid to change everything. It is not necessary to take life too seriously. She is too short.